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Dating Tip 2: If You Do This You Can Choose The Man or Woman of Your Dreams
6 March 09
A lot of people tell me that all my fancy "quick fix" dating advice works - but feels a little fake, since it all comes down to who you really are.
My view is that your car is who you are, and how good a seducer you are is how well you drive.
You could win in a crappy car if you were the best driver in the world.
You could also come in first if you were the worst driver in the world, but in the best car in the world.
But one thing is sure - you will come in first if you have the best car in the world AND you are the best driver.
My point is that you should learn about attraction - become as smooth as James Bond - and learn that super fancy opening line that will attract her to you right from the beginning. But you should also work on upgrading yourself.
If you became the best version of yourself in every possible way - the woman or man of your dreams will probably find you.
Here’s where you could improve:
- Your physical presence: You may not be Brad Pitt, but buy some nice clothes, take a bit more care of your appearance and work out more
- Your finances: It's a fact - life is easier when you have your finances sorted. Give your best at work and get that promotion, start your own company, get out of debt and start spending with your brain turned on.
- Your education: We all like educated people - as long as their education is used in a sexy, interesting and good way.
- Your personal development: Build your self-confidence, grow your self-esteem, and achieve inner peace.
- Family: You should love your mother
- Relationships: How good are you at relationships?
- Sex: How good are you in bed?
- Career/work: Do you love what you do every day?
- Spare time: Do you have fascinating hobbies, or do you chill on the couch with a pizza every night?
Try to rate yourself on a scale of 1-10 on all these areas.
Where could you improve?
If you could honestly say 10 to all of them, you would be able to point to every man or woman as your new significant other - that's for sure.
I know, I know, this is HARD WORK. Getting progress in all of these areas would probably take months, or even years. But hard work pays off. It's worth it. Not only to find the man or woman of your dreams - but for yourself too. So go and work on yourself, and enjoy my quick-fixes along the way. You'll then be on the road to greatness - and enjoy the ride at the same time!
Write to me or comment if you have questions
Love,
Jones Jitter
My view is that your car is who you are, and how good a seducer you are is how well you drive.
You could win in a crappy car if you were the best driver in the world.
You could also come in first if you were the worst driver in the world, but in the best car in the world.
But one thing is sure - you will come in first if you have the best car in the world AND you are the best driver.
My point is that you should learn about attraction - become as smooth as James Bond - and learn that super fancy opening line that will attract her to you right from the beginning. But you should also work on upgrading yourself.
If you became the best version of yourself in every possible way - the woman or man of your dreams will probably find you.
Here’s where you could improve:
- Your physical presence: You may not be Brad Pitt, but buy some nice clothes, take a bit more care of your appearance and work out more
- Your finances: It's a fact - life is easier when you have your finances sorted. Give your best at work and get that promotion, start your own company, get out of debt and start spending with your brain turned on.
- Your education: We all like educated people - as long as their education is used in a sexy, interesting and good way.
- Your personal development: Build your self-confidence, grow your self-esteem, and achieve inner peace.
- Family: You should love your mother
- Relationships: How good are you at relationships?
- Sex: How good are you in bed?
- Career/work: Do you love what you do every day?
- Spare time: Do you have fascinating hobbies, or do you chill on the couch with a pizza every night?
Try to rate yourself on a scale of 1-10 on all these areas.
Where could you improve?
If you could honestly say 10 to all of them, you would be able to point to every man or woman as your new significant other - that's for sure.
I know, I know, this is HARD WORK. Getting progress in all of these areas would probably take months, or even years. But hard work pays off. It's worth it. Not only to find the man or woman of your dreams - but for yourself too. So go and work on yourself, and enjoy my quick-fixes along the way. You'll then be on the road to greatness - and enjoy the ride at the same time!
Write to me or comment if you have questions
Love,
Jones Jitter