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Dating Tip 3: Attract Women Instead of Chasing Them

8 March 09
This dating tip is very important - it is deeply rooted in most guys and comes out every day in every little action when dating women.

My belief is that if you stop chasing women and instead learn how to attract them, you will up your dating results (offline and online) by a factor of 5 - every day!

Chasing woman means:

- Trying too hard to impress

- Saying and doing things only for attention

- Letting them decide what to do

- Calling and writing all the time

- Complementing them excessively for no reason

- Turning your whole focus on her as soon as she comes into the room

- Touching her too much at the start


Avoid all of the above. Sit back and enjoy life instead. Be the same laid-back guy you are when you're with your friends and give her the opportunity to get to know you.

The key thing in attracting her is that she cannot control the situation - she does not choose to be attracted to you, you just create the most amazing feelings in her that she cannot resist.

You attract her by:

- Teasing her

- Having fun

- Being dominant

- Not giving her too much attention until she has earned it

- Switching between giving her attention and ignoring her

Use your Sunday for dating - there are many people online at dating sites right now

With love,

Jones Jitter