what do think about love?

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alankcares
alankcares(48 years - 1 forum posts)28/01/2009 11:08

we all say his this common word"LOVE" can anyone tell tell what constitute to be a LOve and for someone to be in LOVE?

Jones Jitter
Jones Jitter(23 years - 9 forum posts)28/01/2009 11:21
http://proactivitygroup.blogspot.com/200...

In his remarkable book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey, writes:

During a seminar, a man came up and said to him –

'Stephen, I like what you are preaching about relationships. But every situation is different. Look at my marriage. I am really worried. My wife and I just don't have the same feeling for each other that we used to have. I guess I just don't love her anymore, and she doesn't love me".
"The feeling is not there anymore?" Stephen enquired.
"That is right", the man affirmed. "And we have three children and we are really concerned about it. What do you suggest"?
"Love her", Stephen Covey advised him.
"I told you the feeling just isn't there"
"Then love her. If the feeling is not there, that is all the more reason to love her.
"But how do you love when you don't love?"
My friend, Covey told him – "Love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is the fruit of love the verb or our loving actions. So love her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her."

I think that I can't add anything more, as Covey made it clear, that we always oversee the "verb" side of things, and we just see the noun, the result of the verbs, as if we expecting the result without trying the verb to get it.
Kittylady
Kittylady(19 years - 6 forum posts)28/01/2009 22:00
Love is life
Mila-Liudmila
Mila-Liudmila(34 years - 2 forum posts)28/01/2009 22:34
Love is an illusion :) You may believe ,that "Love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is the fruit of love the verb or our loving actions. So love her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her."c) Jones Jitter's post or
You may have Your own idea.e.g. Love is dead or so.
I think, the truth is here " When You love someone, You got to trust him completely.Otherwise, what's the point?" (c) The movie "Casino"
IMHO :)
Ronni
Ronni(26 years - 4 forum posts)29/01/2009 01:03
I belive that most relationships has 3 stages (if they ever get to the 3rd stage).
1) Falling in love.
2) Getting to know eachother.
3) Learn to love eachother.

I think love is a strong word that many use and might even abuse.
meeting42
meeting42(26 years - 1 forum posts)10/02/2009 14:56
The fairy tale turns out in our life, when we like Others and Ourselves.

To be in love is a wonderful adventure. The philosophy of love is a belief in ourselves and another, in the boundless opportunities to change life for the best, to achieve the highest level of bonding with other person. It raises the person to a new level of consciousness, energy, life. So let's grow fond right now, not postponing …. Is it native?
love story, love story free, love online, i need love, romantic
nikki1989
nikki1989(21 years - 3 forum posts)10/02/2009 17:11
Love!!!
Love is what you believe it to be!!!
Some may say "I love pizza" "I love music" etc
Others may say " I love you"
I think, I feel, I believe .... Love is whatever you want it to be!!! Thats why some couples mayb split. One feels they are in love and that they love each other, for the other person its simply lust!!!! Then again i may be wrong? As i said LOVE IS WHAT YOU BELIEVE IT TO BE!!!!
Magnolija
Magnolija(27 years - 2 forum posts)20/02/2009 18:03
Love.... Its something that never ends, something that is given once and forever... Something special for every person.........................
To be in love means to live to enjoy every single day. To have something special every day...
sashhome
sashhome(27 years - 1 forum posts)29/09/2009 07:32
love!!!!!
love is beautiful
Carloss
Carloss(23 years - 1 forum posts)12/10/2009 09:14
love is like a drug - when you once had feel that feeling you will allways fall deeper and deeper in that
miss seductive
miss seductive(21 years - 3 forum posts)22/10/2009 21:47
We love because it's the only true adventure

Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside

Love doesn't make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile